Wednesday, December 14, 2011

The Troubles Of Being A Teenager

                As a teenager, it is easy to be the first person for an adult to blame when something goes wrong.  Unfortunately, some teens choose to follow a path of rebellion, while the others are left to work hard to improve their negative reputation.  Like the African-American woman in “Sears Life”, Wanda Coleman, shopping as a minor, or a person of a different race, can make a person feel inferior to the judgmental, intimidating salesmen that surround you with their suspicious eyes.  While feeding off of misconceptions, the workers often expect the worst from some of the best people.  While shopping during the holiday season last year, I was on top of the world.  I was glowing with pride as I shopped with my newly acquired driver’s license and debit card in hand, determined to find the perfect gift for each member of my family.  As I walked into stores, I immediately felt uncomfortable as the salesmen followed my every move, as if they were trying to count my steps.  Like Coleman, I had come with good intentions, only to be looked down on. 

                While leaving one of the stores, the metal detectors began to sound as I approached the doors.  Immediately, my face turned bright red and my stomach twisted into knots.  The workers surrounded me with their glaring eyes, assuming that I had attempted to steal their merchandise.  I immediately began to panic as they began searching my bags.  After what had seemed like hours, an employee came across a shirt I had purchased at a previous store that still had a security tag sewn into the seam.  Rather than assuming it was the other clerk’s mistake, the manager began reviewing my receipts, desperate to catch me in the act.  When they realized I was innocent, the workers practically seemed disappointed.  Whether you differ in age, size or race, everyone is subject to judgments formed by stereotypes and assumptions.  Wanda was immediately judged because of her race, with no reason or proof behind the worker’s claims.

 As a teen, I am still learning from my mistakes.  I openly admit my imperfections and I look to find the best in others.  Although most adults teach adolescents to treat others with respect and equality, they struggle to follow this advice themselves.  Not one person is alike.  Although skepticism towards my age can be insulting, discrimination is inexcusable.  Breaking barriers is difficult; however, once they are broken they can lead to a greater good and understanding of others. 

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